Truth is you won’t be everybody’s cup of tea and guess what? That is absolutely ok because at the end of the day you can’t be everything for everyone and some people need that extra that you may not be able to give for whatever reason.

In life at times you will find that people will love you today and have issues with you tomorrow and most times the reason is nonexistent.

If you’re like I used to be then you will want to know why they may be acting a particular way towards you. What you have to know is that most times it’s nothing you did.

I had to learn and rather quickly too that people are at times fickle but you can’t allow that to stop you in such a way where you are not able to function and be the best you possible. You have to, let me repeat have to live life on your terms and be so confident in you that their fickled actions won’t shake you.

Someone close to me once told me that you teach people how to treat you and as such if you accept any behavior they will give you just that but if you do the opposite and insist that their treatment towards you be that of a respectful nature they will do either of two things, they will either respect who you are and treat you as such or they will walk away not being able to accept your standards both of which is absolutely fine.

Now I say all this because too often things happen without the why and we get upset because of how we are with people but if we accept in the beginning that people will change and things will happen then it makes for an easier way to live.

Stop expecting others to be like you are, respect that change does take place and live your life accordingly

Jah Bless